• insurgentrat [she/her, it/its]@hexbear.net
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    4 days ago

    My mum and grandmother absolutely beat into me (sometimes literally) that you feed guests.

    I don’t care if you’re here for 30 minutes you will be offered food, and when you politely refuse I am just going to lay out food anyway.

    The idea of not offering someone food and it not being intended as a slight is wild to me. Sharing food to reenforce bonds is so universal there are bread-sharing rituals on every continent.

    This is like learning Danes don’t laugh.