WTF?! Why get judgy over other’s names? Also Mildred is a great name.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ZFQG2e87ZU

Sadly the US never ratified the UN’s convention on the right’s of the child which is why the US has some of the worst abuse and control of children to this day. Really says something about the US mindset, huh?

Not that other places necessarily fair much better as not seeing children as people is kind of built into the system, but at least there are technically laws in some places against some of the worst stuff that can be done to children.

Perhaps there should be a new approach though: !YouthLiberation@slrpnk.net

Yeah, sadly there is only one way to defeat Nazis and it’s not easy or liked by most.

Wake us up when it’s “have”.

We think that the focus on ‘afab’ is very confusing and likely disrespectful to other people’s gender.

We’d say it’s not really possible to be attracted to a gender assignment and probably what you mean is genitals or some other physical features.

Most nonbinary people who have worked hard to get rid of or distance themselves from their gender assignment are probably not going to appreciate you finding them attractive based on a gender assignment.

Genital or other physical features attraction is probably okay and much better than saying you are attracted to a gender assignment. If you are going to call yourself ‘sapphic’ then unless you are legitimately only attracted to women and lesbians, regardless of genitals or other physical features, then we suggest just explaining your attraction rather than using ‘sapphic’ by defining it as being attracted to people who aren’t women/lesbians but who have vaginas and not being attracted to women/lebians who have penises as that’s just invalidating and transphobic, nonbinary erasure etc.

We understand now, we’re going to process this. Thanks for clarifying!

We are plural as it says on our profile.

Personally we have a hard time seeing it as a slur on the level as other ones used for queer or trans people, though feel free to clarify on this.

However, it is absolutely wrong both morally/ethically and scientifically most of the time and it bothers us to no end, because for most people it just doesn’t fit the lived reality or if it does we apologise but it is absolutely fetishising those of us who are trans femme and/or intersex and that therein we feel lays the crux of the problem — fetishisation.

Those who are trans femme and/or are intersex do not exist just for others to get off to.

We also notice it is a problem in a misogynstic sense too as porn artists choose to do it in some cases to characters who have certain gentials in canon and are fine with those genitals but the artists do not think that those people, especially those presenting as femme, can have those genitals and be powerful or in wlw relationships or relationships with femme presenting people, other people with those same genitals or perhaps just in general if they are strong, not submissive or confident in some way.

Please let us know if anything we have said here isn’t understandable or crosses some line.

We get it, the pull towards fitting in and homogeneity is strong, however, you can totally be gender nonconforming without needing to be trans. We suggest start changing up your style and attitude offline and see how it suits you! Start having a more diverse array of interests. Genuinely hope this helps!

What about being straight or at least having that label is it you dislike?

Yep, violently and with extreme force because the legal processes certainly won’t. They have proven that time and time again, so we must make them disappear.

Sounds like transspecies to us. We are the same if so.

We aren’t human as stated in our profile. However, we appreciate you trying 🙂

None of us are a guy, thank you though. We appreciate it!

Not really, apologies we came off that way.

We just haven’t seen them where we live, online or offline, though we would really like to.

Thank you, hope you have a great week!

That assumes we are in the US, whomp.

Good luck finding them though, we’ve never found a place either offline or online that sells them.

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Remind ourselves that gender is a bullshit social construct and we are whatever we believe/say/feel/think we are and nobody else gets to tell us any different.