That sounds great, I could do that. There’s no reason you can’t still ‘sleep over’ or even spend the week or practically live together anyway. As long as each person still has their space to retreat to (without anyone getting upset about it) and no one is left feeling trapped in their own life.

Even if you lived in the house, because let’s face it times are tough, at the very least seperate bedrooms are a must.

Pretty much same. At this point I’m not sure if the idea of a relationship even appeals to me anymore. Sharing a bed and cupboard and your general space 24/7 also frightens me a bit at this point.

I think that if I did start dating or whatever again, the idea of relationship anarchy appeals to me these days. The part about keeping expectations and feelings of ownership in check. And respecting that other people are individuals with their own lives.

Yay I’ll pack the molotovs! A picnic by the fire light of the burning patriarchy sounds fantastic!

Nah that’s brilliant too and I 100% support it.

Lame response, useless af.

Here’s more of the saga of their changing headline:

And a response by Pizza Cake comics lol:

For the person on the left hand side, the only matches I can find seem to be marketing related, or it’s a stock image. The person on the right hand side is from an art piece by someone named Billy Norrby: https://www.billynorrby.com/

How does an occasional music post around here sound? I don’t want to promise weekly or monthly or even that I’ll start right now but I’ve been listening to a lot of new (to me) music, particularly focussing on music with a woman’s voice (alternative / punk / metal to be specific). I’m also starting to see some pretty cool up and comers in my feeds. Itching to start sharing with people who are actually interested. Does this interest people around here?

A few months ago (on my original Blåhaj account), I posted elsewhere asking for suggestions on punk and heavy music with female vocalists. This is ended up starting a ball rolling for me, a new longer term fixation to keep me going for a few years in between the little obsessions lol.

Originally I was planning on doing on doing a post or two with a master list for people to refer to based on genre etc. I’d still like to do that but the more I discover and the more rabbit holes I go down, the longer term that idea is becoming. I also tend to get stuck on and obsessed with one or two bands or artists for a while, so it’s going to take time to really get through everything.

• My two older sisters, repeatedly throughout my life and in multiple ways.
• Various punk rockers for steering me away from potentially ending up like a stereotypical white South African always aligned with the worst of world politics like they do it on purpose.
• And more recently, I’m gonna be corny and sentimental and say you and everyone here for kindly accepting me around.
• And the Blåhaj community in general for being the best examples of open minded and awesome human beings while I was looking for myself.

Just so you know, I had to look that up to make sure it wasn’t some medical condition or something wrong with it that I was unaware of. But you’re correct, it does indeed have a stoma lol.

Yeah I definitely wasn’t intending on making fun of it with this post. I love the look of dyed hair, personally. And this particular kind of stuff with all the hues is an art form.

That’s cool, I can kinda see it, although it doesn’t have the pink / purple hues. This isn’t an offensive meme I hope? I just thought it was offbeat funny.

Username checks out.

https://www.penisland.net/

I think that it can help you find your people. If it’s something really mainstream like Breaking Bad or whatever, you might as say “I like icecream”. But when it gets to slightly more niche stuff that isn’t hogging 90% of the online conversation or airtime on the radio, I think you’re more likely to find people with similar interests or views or personalities to you.

Wealth vs wages? Cars require a substantial amount to buy, and then a decent liveable paycheck that leaves you something to play with for fuel and upkeep. Public transport is something more affordable for wage slaves.

You stole my answer. Save us Superman!

Fun fact: to this day I still don’t know what the “loss” thing is all about and I’ve never bothered looking it up.

But no, in case you’re serious, I think it’s just old fashioned left to right, top row then bottom row. Like a comic book. A style that was fairly popular before internet brain rot.

I feel like I have a lot in a big barrel that sloshes and spills sometimes. I was a “sensitive” kid that cried at movies and TV, and animals in the SPCA, and vandalized trees. Somewhere along the way I had to get it under control or store it, probably around starting school and needing to putting a mask on in general. Not to say that I never had embarrassing moments from that point on.

I still cry about both big and small things, when I’m in my own space. And one of things that I love about watching movies and series by myself with earphones in is that I get to cry at dumb shit uninterrupted and not feeling self conscious. I rewatched Harley Quinn and cried my eyes out at the finale of that goofy shit lol.

Waiting for someone to tell me it’s an AI picture or the cat is sick or something.