Is it possible to remain “cishet” eternally? I kinda like a little gay sex but I don’t want to appropriate bi culture because society totally sees me as het
Yeah but society’s homophobic as fuck and claiming you can’t be bi because your in (or have only had) straight relationships is one of its ways of erasing queer attraction. If you like a little bit of gay alongside your straight no one here will gatekeep you from describing yourself as bi. Society calls me a man - doesn’t mean I am one.
Ok but are you a cishet “ally” or a “cishet” ally
This is what matters. I was a “cishet” ally for years until I found out I wasn’t het and until I found out being cis is silly
Is it possible to remain “cishet” eternally? I kinda like a little gay sex but I don’t want to appropriate bi culture because society totally sees me as het
Yeah but society’s homophobic as fuck and claiming you can’t be bi because your in (or have only had) straight relationships is one of its ways of erasing queer attraction. If you like a little bit of gay alongside your straight no one here will gatekeep you from describing yourself as bi. Society calls me a man - doesn’t mean I am one.
Okay I guess I can be a little bi, as a treat
Another cishet down