First question: how would you handle situations where you show interest in someone by writing a thoughtful blurb (maybe even witty), and they liked it enough to match with you, but not actually respond?

Second question: for those people out there who have someone show interest in you by writing a thoughtful blurb (maybe even witty), why would you not at least also say hi or some other basic acknowledgment? What is the expectation?

  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    1st question: They are not interested in you.

    2nd question: I get interest from women on apps who I have on interest in, who are often horribly incompatible with me. Why they are so interested in me, I will NEVER know. I ignore/block them. I have wasted so many years of my life dating people who were incompatible liars who only wanted to date me for shallow reason and I’m never making that mistake again. Responding to people is stupid if you are not interested in them.

    What I expect is to go on dates with people who compatible with me and possible interested in me. What I mostly get is women who are completely disinterested in me if we are compatible, and lots of interest from incompatible women.