Hi, so I could use some help. I really like my girlfriend and I want to show my love and make her feel special, but I don’t know how to do it without going into “obsessive” territory. I’ve loved her for two years and every day with her is great, but I don’t know what to do since I feel more obsessed every day.
Learn her “love language” (more accurately, it could be called “appreciation language”). That way when you’re trying to show you appreciate her, it will be in the way(s) she’s best able to receive it. Often gestures not in the right language aren’t interpreted as appreciation.