Hi, so I could use some help. I really like my girlfriend and I want to show my love and make her feel special, but I don’t know how to do it without going into “obsessive” territory. I’ve loved her for two years and every day with her is great, but I don’t know what to do since I feel more obsessed every day.

  • JohnnyFlapHoleSeed@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    3 days ago

    As a guy, this always feels like a hard question, because you can never fully predict anyone’s response to anything.

    Personally, I like a hybrid approach. Do something that shows you want to keep her safe, it doesn’t have to be huge, but change the oil in her car, change the wiper blades, top of her fluids, see if the brake pads need changing, and fill up her tank. If she doesn’t have a car, clean her fridge and dryer lint trap.

    Then on top of that, get tickets to something that SHE will love. Demonstrate value, nurture dependence