• _cryptagion [he/him]@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    19 hours ago

    you said a temp ban for ableist slurs on an instance run by neurodivergents was “fucking stupid”, when the OP refused to edit their post to remove the slurs. what did you think was gonna happen? you got a temp ban yourself, it’s hardly the end of the world.

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      19 hours ago

      when the OP refused to edit their post to remove the slurs

      They claim they haven’t received the opportunity to

      what did you think was gonna happen?

      A discussion to get their logic and side of the story?

      Nah, banning is better. This way people will learn and change for sure, definitely won’t grow to hate db0 more and more…

      There wasn’t even any slur, like come on, at least try making valid reasons. Anyone with a little good faith can understand what was meant by the message and that it wasn’t made to make fun of mental disorders

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        19 hours ago

        Nah, banning is better. This way people will learn and change for sure, definitely won’t grow to hate db0 more and more…

        if people hate us because they can’t act like that on our instance without getting a ban, then that’s really their problem, not ours. nobody needs to be federated with us if they think we’re too sensitive or woke. that’s the beauty of fedi, if you don’t like our space, you can go make your own. like you did.

        but don’t expect us to cater to your whims. you don’t pay the bills to keep our instance running. you don’t even live there. you don’t get a say in how we curate our instance.

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          15 hours ago

          Turned out from “we’re right” to “if you don’t like it, leave”

          I have switched instances over some time and frankly I kind of have enough of it. At some point I’m thinking about making my own instance because I have enough of it all. We will see

          but don’t expect us to cater to your whims. you don’t pay the bills to keep our instance running. you don’t even live there. you don’t get a say in how we curate our instance.

          Being open to discussion shouldn’t be a luxury