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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • No one deserves to be called stupid just because they struggle with an objectively poor onboarding process and gate keeping.

    I am perfectly able to navigate Lemmy’s interface and I still think it’s a pile of Garbage. It suffers from the same problem most projects suffer from. Designed by a programmer not a UX designer.

    Also I would rather enjoy if Lemmy didn’t just become an echo chamber of extremism in the opposite direction of reddit. Cause at this rate Lemmy is already becoming a cess pit of echo chambers and extreme levels of gate keeping.

    For that you need a board spectrum of people. Including those you seem “stupid”.

    So fuck off with your gate keeping. Be helpful and set a good example.



  • Gender is almost unarguably entirely a social construct. Two seconds in a history book shows this to be true.

    It’s a learned framework. But with in that framework we have associated sex with gender so intrinsically that separating the two is near impossible outside of a science context. At least in a modern context. This can vary depending on the region and point in history.

    So with how linked they are you have skirts to female(gender) in that framework. If you want to identity as female (sex), then you will gravitate to the female gender(gender) clothing options. As a short hand. It’s not the only way but it is undeniable that it is one of the easiest.

    It’s just working with the tools, behaviours and context of the reality around you