“God, what have you done!”
“God, what have you done!”
Hi, Happy to try and answer, though with the caveat that this is just from my own experience.
Disphoria happens on a social, mental, and physical level. For some the social hits strongest, basically they feel like their true gender internally and would like to act and be treated in a way that matches the social contruct of their true gender rather than their AAB gender, but they may care less or not at all about the physical appearance. Transmedicalism denies that their experience is very much the trans experience. For some, like me, my lifelong dismorohia (e.g. eat disorder, body shame) meant that my physical disphoria only presented after I found queer communities will to accept me as trans while I still looked very cis. To put it in TLDR terms, no woman should have to shave her legs to be a woman (and trans women are women). Which leads me to #2.
Transitioning can take a long time. I am now addressing my physical disphoria, but the time and money required is significant. Transmedicalism (perhaps unintentionally) creates hierarchies: passing > surgeries > hormones etc. Which can be emotionally destroying along the way, and even more for a late-bloomer like me, who may never pass. And so rejecting that helps change the standard for me, makes sure every step I take is for me which leads to the last point.
NB and trans NB people exist. Specifically why what OPs dad said is still troubling, it still forces a binary when gender is more of a 4d spectrum.
TL;DR transmedicalism gatekeeps a lot of people out, when we all have far more in common.
Again, not the gospel, just my take. Thanks for asking. ❤️
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I saw an ad for it, I guess big data knows I’m a queer nerd.
For anyone who doesn’t get the reference.
We keep shooting it and yelling “stop resisting” but the fire won’t stop!
Pulls out my big box of old CAT5 cables… Who’s the packrat now?!
Zing and ZING!
Exxcellent.
Does Harris’s success mean that the fundamental dynamics of the race have changed? Probably not.
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Donald, You need to calm down. You know all too well there’s some bad blood between us. Never in your wildest dreams would I endorse the smallest man/hands that ever lived.
Now look what you made me do, don’t blame me if my fans try some vigilante shit. This isn’t a love story, it’s karma, and you’re guilty as sin.
So shake it off and stick to campaigning in Florida, it’s only August after all.
You’re on your own kid, -T
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The full story is almost better than that. As told by his brother:
"Well, this old librarian, she says, ‘This library is not for coloreds.’ He said, ‘Well, I would like to check out these books.’
"She says, ‘Young man, if you don’t leave this library right now, I’m gonna call the police.’
"So he just propped himself up on the counter, and sat there, and said, ‘I’ll wait.’ "
[The police and his mother were called]
"And the police officer said, ‘You know, why don’t you just give the kid the books?’
"And my mother said, ‘He’ll take good care of them.’ "
So, the librarian reluctantly handed over the books. And then, Carl says, "my mother said, ‘What do you say?’ "
And Ron answered, “Thank you, ma’am.”
Full story: NPR
ACT 1, The GOP kills his puppy…
During lockdown I tried making fruit wine without doing enough reading. It smelled like acetone and I’m pretty sure it was lightly poisonous. He can have that recipe if he wants.
I read(yelled) this entirely in Lewis Black’s voice.
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Spelled different, but seemed relevant.
He had slayed me, mutha! [Deathdrops.
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