Still waiting for approval for surgery here, but thank you so much as always for talking about your experiences. It’s really helpful to know what I might have to face going forward.

It does sound like your brain is playing tricks. Hope things calm down soon <3

Marriage went from “I guess we’ll figure this out” to “who gets the house” rather quickly…

Oh well, maybe I can find someone new who’s into women.

Yeah you did! Awesome!

I get to wear cozy sweaters and snuggle under blankets.

I have all the hobbies (thanks ADHD), so it depends on how much I want to avoid the conversation. Usually “computers” is enough to signal “danger, she’s a nerd”.

Otherwise it depends on what the other person might find interesting. Gardening, clay pigeon shooting, piano, mathematics, baking, and amateur radio are all fun topics I can infodump on.

I really am a nerd.

I, er, don’t know. But I’m kind of curious now. I assume something like hand sanitizer?

It smells pretty good, though, although I can’t think of anything similar.

I practically lived off it when I was a student :3

Thank you! Here’s a better shot I took the other day: