I turn my profile visible for about 24 hours. As a late 30’s woman, that gets me about 300 likes in a medium sized European city. (I pay for it, it’s impossible to use otherwise.)

I then go into my list of likes and use filters to start left swiping based on hard cutoff criteria (wants kids, Christian, etc). That drops it down to ~100 people. I use an app that has good filters.

I then go through reading profiles and looking at who is attractive for me (pictures and bio). That leaves about 25 people. I then match with all of them at once. Usually leads to 5 or so good conversations, and a few dates. Give it a shot, repeat if necessary.

If I leave mt profile visible for more than a few days I have thousands of likes. I match with most people I see swiping. It’s just not a feasible way to do it. And I’m not even attractive.

It’s just a flood and it’s nearly impossible to manage. It’s such a broken, asymmetrical system. I hate it so much.

It is, also called Luna moth or Moon moth

Aww yesss a fresh Mariapost and fresh soup. <3

Yeahhhh pears and apples and stonefruits too here. It also happened suddenly, when I was 34 (4 years ago).

Still plenty of delicious food though, and you’re not alone <3

I also have severe fodmap reactions. No garlic or onion. It makes me very sad. :( :(

My week was long but had good moments!

I went to the forest with a friend and walked a lot. Another day went to a local farm market and got some delicious honey. And even though I’m incredibly depressed and sad, I still managed to clean my apartment! I just listened to music and got angry and cried while I did it :D

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Sameee, thought it was a cis guy hyping up transfems and was so confused at the comments at first.

You have the sweetest art. <3

Please crop your screenshots 😭 It makes my feed so long, since you’re posting so much lately.

I really like your posts otherwise!

This is exactly the feeling. Went through a tornado when I lived in the midwest. It hit two streets over, just missing us. The sirens were going off but we were teenagers and still hanging out on the couch, parents were out. There were a ton of storms growing up where the sirens went off so we were a little desensitized.

Suddenly just knew it was time to go, something was here. Don’t know how else to describe it, the air changes, it’s like the vibrations change in the wind, or a sound that’s too deep to hear. Can’t say exactly, but I still remember the feeling of move now. We all just bolted at the same time and ran to the basement.

Yep, and in Norway if you don’t have Facebook you are just as well shut out. Building association (that you live in), businesses, schools, it’s ridiculous.

Love this for you ❤️❤️❤️

It’s called Metalhead, from Black Mirror (you could have also just asked, instead of this comment, would have gladly said so).

I forgot how horrifying this episode was. Part of me wants to rewatch, part of me thinks it’s too close to our current reality.

Aww congratulations! I’m glad it went well, even if it’s still complicated. ❤️

Hi! Yes just joined, love it here.

This reminds me of the Christmas markets we have in Norway 🥰

I’m also ready for winter!

Heyy welcome ❤️

This is so gentle and sweet!