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Cake day: June 20th, 2023

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  • I’ll cop to not having read the article and I’ll say I might, but I can think of some pretty good ones. It’s so children and teenagers can tell people when something bad is happening to them. Like being in a child marriage. Or being abused. Or being shot at in school. Or when their community is being preyed upon. Or when they’re in a cult. Or when they’re kidnapped and they have a phone. Or when they need to advocate for themselves against policy that chiefly affects them. Or when they’re afraid something is happening to their friends. Or when they’re suicidal. Or when they’re lost. I could probably come up with a hundred of these. The thing is that children and teens are half-finished people and we afford people certain rights. So we need to decide if we’d rather treat kids as human or as another group of pawns to control. I loathe this debate.




  • Victories in the Middle East

    I’m honestly not sure what this refers to in recent memory unless you’re talking about the initial battlefield victories, executing Hussein, killing Bin Laden, or dropping MOAB to make ourselves feel better. We fled Afghanistan with our tails between our leg, left a power vacuum in our wake and the people to be ruled by their theocrats. It was godawful and we lost stupendously more than we gained at least in the public sector. Nice agitprop though I guess.



  • I’d like to second this sentiment… I know that there’s one man who understands the fear I’m feeling, the building rage and panic. He posts on my instance and his name is Pete. Its a little thing but it makes me feel less alone.

    Might edit this post with some music I’ve been using to cope later. I just wanted to let you know I, we, see you.

    Here ya go. I got into a game with a soundtrack by an infamous breakbeat producer called Sewerslvt and what I took away from reading about her career is that her oeuvre hinges a lot on suicidality, loss, and shock. This track is called Jvnko Loves You and references one of the most brutal, graphic stories of murder I’ve ever come across and… it makes me want to live because the victim in question didn’t get to, which I think is what the artist was going for.

    More generally, the music of Death Grips helped me internalize that spite can be a vile humor that pushes us to live and that hate, rage, and nihilism are core parts of our humanity that hurt as much to deny as they do to embrace. Many of their songs are about how hard it is to choose to live and many of their lyrics have stuck with me. Beware - an audio formatted raison d’etre. On GP - a screed about choosing to live for others. Come Up and Get Me - Self explanatory.

    These are angry and/or intense songs and thoughts that I hope won’t be triggering for you, please don’t listen if they are. I know you DID say anger wasn’t your cup of tea, sorry. Its not ecstasy, but I’m in a somewhat similar boat of coming off of being a daily weed smoker during one of the worst times I can imagine for ANYONE to kick ANYTHING, whether it’s opiates or gummy bears. My sympathies. I’d like to also add a couple of more beautiful, serene tracks, to counterbalance the bleak tracks above.

    Sufjan Stevens - I Want to Be Well

    Zoe - Luna

    Anoraak - We Lost

    Sigur Ros - Glosoli




  • GAMERS ON THE WELL MANNERED PUPPY-GIRL ALPHA CHAD FEDERATED REDDIT ALTERNATIVE WHEN YOU BEG THEM NOT TO BE TOXIC TO THE DEVELOPER (THEY WILL DEFUSE THEIR SHITTINESS/THEY WILL NOT ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY OR TAKE A TIRED DEVELOPER’S PLEAS GRACEFULLY)

    GROW UP fuckers. The game sucks, I’ve played it. I’ve also been playing increasinly bad Dragon Age games long enough to know ITS EA, ITS ALWAYS BEEN EA. Everything they touch turns to shit. Veilguard was a live service team-based wave survival game like ME3 multiplayer until eight months before launch and you can reeeaaally tell.

    I don’t give a fuck about blue haired devs, pronouns, none of that shit. If you do, grow up. Yes, Bioware is a skeleton crew with hack writers and a captain hired to go down with the ship and get the game out the door… BECAUSE OF EA.

    ARE YOU JUST NOW PLAYING VIDEO GAMES FOR THE FIRST TIME? DID YOU NOT KNOW ABOUT THE PUBLISHERS IN GENERAL?

    Gamergate’s still fucking going on. Bitching about Anita Sarkeesian in 2025 in response to a dev begging to stop being harassed, PATHETIC.



  • It’s hard right? All the ones we were raised with like mrn and even the more enjoyable corruption/portmanteaus like fuck-t*** just punch down. Any slur or bad word has its nuances and pros/cons (almost exclusively cons with words originating as slurs) but the ones to do with intellectual disability are particularly hard because they were EVERYWHERE. And the reason for that is that the intellectually disabled can’t as easily advocate for themselves as for example the Roma, or the gay/mlm community. I tend to think contrived insults that imply your subject of derision is responsible for their own undoing work best. Like asshat, or fuckstick, ignorant motherfucker, sour cunt, livid piece of shit, etc etc. Either these are conditions of personability that a person could change about themselves (if we want to go that far “sour cunt” is sexed and possibly implies a hygeine problem) or they invoke a situation that took some doing to get into, like making a hat out of some ass and wearing that.

    Thanks for hearing me out.


  • araneae@beehaw.orgto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonerule :(
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    People aren’t fundamentally racist, stuck up or bigoted.

    Yes, at least some of them are. Don’t be this naive. You could make the argument even that most of MAGA are EcOnOmiCalLy AnXIoUs but (trigger warning: Godwin’s Law) so were most nazis. SOME people really are like that.

    There was once a time, very brief, when Elon Musk wasn’t a complete jackass. A brief time when people were watching rocket starts with awe that instilled hope in them.

    That was called marketing and it sold a lot of Teslas. No one who will do a nazi salute is capable of delivering the utopia future you describe. Anyone who would do a nazi salute is definitively always a jackass.

    Otherwise I agree and really do appreciate this kind of hopefulness. I really think what you’re saying is correct and important. It’s just, well, those two SLIGHT bits of contention… Sorry.









  • They are typing up Bible length posts talking of neoliberalism and how the DNC can’t win elections and how Kamala should have come out against Israel so she could have been crucified by the American Evangelical Zionist community, ADL, blue hawks, and veiled Nazi media sources. You’re not going to see them take any responsibility for spreading fascism enabling paralysis of conscience. Their current attack pattern is to blame people scared of being hauled off to camps for not personally taking their Kalishnikovs to the nearest internment camp up to now to die at the gates.

    As if no Palestinian ever wept for the fate of a Burmese victim and felt powerless for being half a world away. As if no Chechan man ever wept for his brothers and sisters in the gay community in Uganda. As if no Han ever wept for a Uyghur. As if Jews did not weep for the Roma.

    You can take the view that the election was stolen if you want, or that it was decided by apathy, or that Americans really want fascism, but whats likely is these cold, dull pieces of shit are not to blame for the electoral turnout being what it was. What they are guilty of is being politically illiterate pawns that had no organzational outlet besides putting down other leftists online. They failed to understand that America is a colonial white supremacist state and working to change that has been a 250 year project worked on by non-passing trans women throwing bricks at cops, by coal miners getting murdered by machine guns, by laborers fighting Pinkertons, by black men arguing for themselves in newspapers, by black women climbing into bed with white men for a seat at the table, by college students getting gunned down for protesting, by corporate soldiers who could have been monarchs but had the mad impulse towards humanity at the last minute, by folk musicians, by poets, by degenerates, by satirists, by Satanists, by sci-fi writers, by unpopular pornographers, etc etc etc…

    And the large majority of the time it probably felt like failing, screaming into the void and then getting shot in the back of the head.

    But no color revolution ever occurred here (yet) by electoralism and the cruel detachement of bitter online “leftists” with authoritarian tendancies shouting the rest of us down as moral hypocrites.

    You failed, during your life time, so far, to live up to the image they had in their head of a swelling proletariat seizing the means of production with a gat and a smile. Kamala Harris failed, in two months, to tease the United States military industrial complex, reflexive colonial state long-term goals, and Christian millinarian suicidal religious motivation, apart from the Democratic party, which perpetually exists in the chiaroscuro negative space of a white supremacist colonial state. They can accept no nuance because nuance hurts, it actually is painful and it sucks. Better to blame everyone else.

    America will now do the most genocide possible instead of any variation on that. People who could have been given time to grow and live and even possibly escape now wont be. Don’t feel responsible… electoral reform is hard and democracy is thusly untenable. Go back to bed after telling a frightened girl on Lemmy she deserves whats coming because she didn’t, allegedly, care about the international situation (I saw this happen). If this is your first election cycle after coming to political awareness, fuck you imperialist pig, kys. If you’re thinking of evolving yourself and your activism don’t, you should have been there already. We are born steeped in original sin and none of us are worthy of the kingdom of Heaven. None of us deserve each others grace. Give up and collapse like a dying star and pull the world down with us.

    That’s where they’re at.

    Sorry for the word wall.