

Privately, not publicly. And I think that chart is mostly about what step they are willing to say out loud so far. Since they need outside approval, when they fuck up, which is often, this is the tried and true path to get the least flack from the people they want to be praising them as soon as possible again.
The regular narcissists in your life follow it too, it’s practically instinct.
Just bought one in Canada a week ago, it came in through Vancouver, like pretty much everything else does.