This may or may not be the darkest timeline (it’s pretty close)… but it’s 100% the stupidest.

Quack Quack

Got any grapes?

What I have heard is, don’t insist that a cis-identifying person is trans. Especially don’t butt in, say, over the internet when you don’t know them.

If someone says “I wish I was a lesbian” it would be ok to say “That’s an option, you know 😉” but not ok to say “You’re a trans woman in denial”

https://what-if.xkcd.com/6/

✨️hugs✨️

You already are one, the people around you just don’t know it yet

I mean ~❤️

Go right ahead 😏

Physicist: ducks

Sure thing! My username should be on my profile, or feel free to dm me on lemmy

That is what they say.

Matrix is more like discord ig? You can find groups on there but you could also use jt just for direct messaging

Unfortunately he seems very capable of multitasking in that regard

I mean that could be it’s own meme

Oh I don’t see it as a bad thing. I’m just saying it’s ironic.

It really depends 😅

Sounds like we should be friends 😅

I’m full of unnecessarily detailed analysis

(For real, if you hmu on matrix I will not mind)

but don’t beat yourself up too much

Oh don’t worry, that wasn’t the spirit of my comment at all. If anything, I started using dude after my egg cracked. It fits with the chill, tomboyish image I have of myself.

Nobody (including you) should put other peoples’ feeling above your own

I kinda see where you’re coming from, but I wholeheartedly disagree.

You should never put your needs below anyone else’s, but I’d argue that it’s very healthy to mildly inconvenience yourself in order to avoid majorly inconveniencing or hurting others. In fact I’d say that’s kind of the entire cornersone of human civilization.

I find buddy and pal way more gendered (to me) than dude, tbh

I’m fine with being called dude, it makes me feel like a chill homegirl. But you call me “bud” and I’ll want to punch you.

Is it weird that I’m a Trans girl and I still use dude like so much?

And yet when other people use it for me, I feel like I have to ask how they meant it 😅

It would definitely need to be ground in a literal sense.

And even the earth has its limits. Soil is only so conductive, pump enough energy into it and you’ll turn it to glass (which won’t conduct anymore).