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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • No. Just no.

    She’s in the midst of a divorce and almost certainly not ready for that.

    You admit concerns about compatibility but way more than that claim you’d change who you are for them.

    No.

    That will NEVER work out well. Love comes from people who love who you are, not who you can try to be.

    The bond you have is lovely, let her dust settle and the storm to pass - once there is “normal” life see if you still feel the same. Crisis and trauma can push people together but perhaps for the wrong reasons.

    Good luck. I hope you both find happiness.