Not wanting to eat out their significant other isn’t necessarily correlated to toxic masculinity; I think you’re conflating two different things. It’s possible to be selfish completely unrelated to toxic masculinity. Not every instance of a male doing something wrong is attributable to toxic masculinity.

My only regret is that I have Boneitis

You wish you’d never have switched from Friendster?

Luckily thanks to Federation it’s easy to connect with users across instances of both.

So, luckily you can still be connected to the tankies you don’t like?