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2 hours agoi want to complain about my job in enough detail that it’s an actual good vent but not so much that my job is identifiable, the shitposting depressed wage slave dilemma 
DoomBloomDialectic [they/them, he/him]
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mental health talk, spoiler for readability
ya we’ve talked about the anxiety/ADHD combo on my old account, something I know quite well/intimately. hoping the new therapist is helpful
just try to be kind to yourself in the process and remind yourself that progress isn’t linear.idk if this helps you but i try to sometimes look at intrusive thoughts as external objects as a way to self-regulate in the moment - real, existent things not to be run away from, but also not some fundamental part of myself that i need to agonize over. makes it into a passing annoyance more akin to, idk, a too-loud car barrelling down the street, vs an all encompassing horror.
Porky measures your value according to completely anti-human & anti-life metrics, holding yourself to his standards when you think & talk about your self worth does yourself a disservice, as well as the people around you. You are better than the wretched capitalist system. Also…
I’m not lazy, I’m just incompetent. Not my fault everyone is just better than me, I try but someone beats me every time…and even if I was the only one, porky would just not hire me because why would he hire a loser like me?
Porky will literally hire his incompetent failnephew without question or vetting, just because
this shit is not a reflection of your or anyone else’s intrinsic value, trust.
@GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net the worldbuilding ideas would be for a setting ive worked on on and off for years (industrialized fantasy with weird fiction and communist themes) so doing actual serious work on it would involve wading through/decoding my scattered, nerodivergent-ass google docs sadly. just the thought of it gives me anxiety!! but the ideas i was having were for big picture creation myth and cosmology and metaphysics shit, which does lend itself more to vaguery & brain vomit so maybe i should give it a whirl anyway
it’s funny, you and i are kind of the opposite - the type of details you stress over w/ worldbuilding is the kind of shit i really struggle with. whenever i think about realistic logistics around climate, geography, etc on a micro level, my brain derobes itself of its burdensome, chafing wrinkles and my eyes lose their spark and i become
intrusive thoughts are such a nightmare, i feel for you cousin. i wish people who didn’t experience them understood the sudden waterfall of shame/horror that come with them.
i can’t speak to your therapy comment without knowing specifics, but i do feel like stuff that’s too exclusively CBT-focused can result in yeah, just feeling like you’re better at stuffing things & being Just OK Enough To Work for the Machine. not sure if that’s your situation but could be something to consider!
good luck!! assuming it’s with someone new, remember that a first date is - fundamentally - just hanging out with a new person in a slightly different context, vibing out whether there’s romantic potential is a secondary background thing. and as far as the second part, you’re trying to get a read on them for compatibility as much as they are with you! hope that takes the pressure off (though i know social anxiety doesn’t obey reason in a 1:1 way)
Need a new collection of hobbies and hyperfixations to shitpost about so that people can’t ID me from my old account - looking for maybe a solid half-dozen (6). Suggestions???
Preferably nothing involving physical coordination since I’m a depressed nerd
& also nothing math-like because I’m more of an Actual Art Degree nerd 
than a STEM nerd 
13·4 days agoI was a religious cushvlog watcher and you could kinda see Matt become more and more Chinapilled in real time. idk if he ever made it all the way way to “China is genuinely socialist,” but I also think that’s the kind of question Matt would probably have written off as unanswerable theorycrafting that people ruminate endlessly on mostly online - or otherwise in isolation - which they mistake for actually doing politics (I don’t really have an opinion on whether that last part is right or wrong, just educated guessing where he’d be at during the later cushvlogs era).
I periodically get the fantasy worldbuilding itch and honestly it’s more annoying than anything. Mostly because I don’t write want to write a fantasy novel (and don’t write fantasy-as-such for my larger creative projects in general), and realistically working full time combined with the active communist lifestyle wouldn’t make a d&d group feasible, my main friend group I’d recruit from for such a thing would be people with the same issue schedule-wise.
Maybe I’ll pick my d&d hobby back up if I make it to retirement
Wot if a Tales from the Crypt eppy were two and a half hours long??
(angry that i’m sleep deprived at work because i stayed up watching The Substance - fun-if-shallow mids if it were a tight 90 but at that length i’m leaning toward active dislike)
yeah i can’t speak to your branch’s recruitment needs b/c every local is slightly different, but it’s very possible they were just prioritizing certain areas/demographics. but def hit someone back up! whenever a good volunteer-comrade fades away, our first thought after “a certain amount of volunteer churn is inevitable” is “damn, what are we not doing well enough when it comes to retention???” so there’s a very good chance comrades near you are bummed that you fell off their radar and want you to come back!
also some of our most dedicated cadres were active friends of the party for years before becoming members, so try not to be discouraged! i do feel you though re: paranoia you did something wrong, serious political organizing can kinda be extreme exposure therapy if you’re already rejection sensitive.
been there lol but the best thing for your mental health and everyone’s interests is almost always to just log off and do something enjoyable irl. IME no one is ever truly “owned” on the internet people are just running on parallel hamster wheels of psychic misery that push them toward the endpoint of either leaving the cave and
or going absolutely insane like they saw 
or similar.i do feel you though the internet is evil and the online left can be painfully annoying.
see my previous comment to LeninsBeard, hoping u can get linked up!
did they never get back to you? or did they decide it wasn’t a good fit? if the former i would try and find organizing meetings, etc, in person and try to build irl relationships w/ members and express your interest in joining there. it’s easy for online applications to slip through the cracks due to spinning a lot of plates. there’s also just a lot of layers/vetting so patience is needed.
@peppersky@hexbear.net i’m just some idiot but i wanted to second this, from my own very limited perspective.
mild journalposting
most of my new close friends and community r thru communism, and they largely are somewhere on the neurodivergent & queer venn diagram and there is just a greater ambient sense of intuitive understanding and acceptance in those relationships. obviously my path to community & new close friendship isn’t available to everyone but maybe there are lessons in my anecdotal experience regardless.