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В школе говорят, что мне пора бы поумнеть (Чё?)

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  • And figuring out their preferred pronouns isn’t always easy.

    usually the pronouns are listed somewhere or you ask

    This isn’t as simple as a lot of people want it to be. Going neutral isn’t a slight. It’s not misgendering. It’s a way to avoid accidentally making an error even with the best of intentions.

    There’s a reason many trans spaces in Lemmy require listed pronouns, it removes the guesswork and you can reference inline.

    If you’re using gendered pronouns for most cis people but then specifically degendering trans people it’s going to eventually rub people the wrong way. People aren’t going to care if you make an error while being well intentioned, especially if you ask for more information and correct yourself going forward.