This paper is aimed at men who are attracted to women, which covers both straight men and bisexual men’s interactions with women. It is somewhat useful for men who are attracted to men, and for women, though many of the things I say will not apply.

I’m bi leaning gay, but I came out recently and turns out I enjoy sex with men more than women. In a strange twist of irony, I find I get more women when I look for men. I don’t date that much since I’ve got other family responsibilities, but the last two new women I slept with I “got” by talking about my interest in men.

Weird and cool I guess, but I would rather date men. I just live in a homophobic area, so life is hard.

Yeah. This is literally just to simplify the questions of why do I have multiple boy/girlfriends. It’s not like I can hide that from my kid.

The alternative is to let them think I’m cheating, which is what other people in my kid’s life will tell him.

It’s no different than trying to answer the two dads question.