Family comes first. Now maybe there’s some wiggle room to decide which choice serves my family better, but my motivation would always be to serve my family the best I can.
That being said, I’m a fifty year old man with 5 kids. If one of my kids was in the same position I might quietly cheer them on for resisting if it was just them and me. But I’d have to encourage them to consider their siblings as well if that was the situation.
Family comes first. Now maybe there’s some wiggle room to decide which choice serves my family better, but my motivation would always be to serve my family the best I can.
That being said, I’m a fifty year old man with 5 kids. If one of my kids was in the same position I might quietly cheer them on for resisting if it was just them and me. But I’d have to encourage them to consider their siblings as well if that was the situation.