• Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    My mum is still with her abuser and will be forever I imagine. It’s hard to get someone to change when they’ve sunk so much cost in and are a little too old school.

    I wish everyone in this situation a very good luck getting out.

    • Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.comOP
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      That’s really hard to watch, it’s a sad and helpless position for you. It’s really difficult to get out when someone has sunk so much cost in, especially when the abusers has had years to build a cage round them. That’s the whole point of the control. I wish you and your mom peace