• jve@lemmy.world
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    20 hours ago

    Literally, most people don’t want unsolicited interactions where I’m from

    You’ve talked a lot about this with others I take it? Got good data to work with?

    If someone’s approaching you to start a conversation out of the blue, they’re going to be asking you for booze or cigarettes. Or money. Or they already got their booze and now they’re making small talk. And for 50% of the population, the other 50% of the population can be seen as threatening based on gender alone.

    These percentages do make your vibes and intuition much more convincing.

    So it’s polite to just shut up and let other people be.

    It’s not impolite, sure.

    You gotta have a reason for talking to people who aren’t expecting to be talked to.

    I do have a reason. You just don’t personally like it, except for the other times when you choose it. You’ve convinced yourself that I must want something, so stranger danger bad.

    Not bothering anyone is part of our culture.

    Which culture is this? How is “bothering” defined? You seem to be acting like eye contact and a smile means I’m after your money

    You assume I’m bothering people. I assert that I don’t believe it to be true. My point of view had some evidence, which I have linked throughout these comments. Yours are stated as fact despite clearly just being your vibes.