I am 14M(AGAB) and started feeling gender dysphoria after starting puberty. At first I thought that I was agender. Soon, I found myself imagining being an AGAB agender, so I decided that I was not agender but a trans girl. However, after identifying as trans, I only feel gender dysphoria once a while, and it’s not string enough as before. I am now thinking that I might not be trans, and what I felt before was just a normal puberty experience. I’m afraid that I was thinking about myself all wrong.

  • Melody Fwygon@beehaw.org
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    20 hours ago

    Take your time, be you, and remember that Dysphoria is not a requirement of being Trans. Only you can decide what you identify as.

    In my personal experience; Dysphoria comes and goes as it will. Dysphoria is not usually a normal part of puberty; at least not in the way you describe the way you’ve experienced it.

    I would suspect; the main reason why you don’t feel it frequently right now is that you’ve already accepted that you may be trans, and have allowed yourself to mentally explore that concept or thought. There is no harm in doing so; and you’re free to come to your own conclusion about being trans, female or feminine.