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    Americans are big on appearances. Gotta seem religious. Gotta seem rich. Gotta seem happy. Gotta seem free.

    Seem

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    crazy how people in brazil used to look up to American living standards, but it turns out americans have more inequality, violence, worse education, health system, worse food, and the list goes on

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      I swear the biggest lie is that America is somehow a better country because it has houses that are expensive and fast food so that it can import what essentially accounts to slave labor when they finally come over excited to work for lower wages and live in cramped housing without their social networks other than the other slave laborers.

      Its probably how we make it how people not climbing financially can still feel superior. No one has to pay the debt if you can keep getting new people on a lower rung.

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    The US is big on wealth inequality, like most third-world countries. Yeah, lots of people are broke, but lots of people are also making 200k/year. Overall we’re definitely struggling, but that doesn’t mean everyone is struggling.

    Lemmy also leans both older and into the tech demographic, which tend to be higher paid.

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      Cries in near minimum wage UK tech work. The only upside is minimum wage is actually pretty good

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      Yeah, close to 6% of the population is making unfathomable amounts of money and the crazy thing is that just 6% of the population is still 20 Million people. You could replace the entire population of Tokyo with American millionaires and still have more to spare to claim New York too.

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          True but I think the rich are about 10% so I think that’s number should be closer to like 30-35m

          Either way, US has a mega city or canada sized country of pure high income and or asset owner.

          These people are true benefecies of the empire. They essentially enforce regime orthodoxy on political level while providing their professional services to the owner class. For this they are permitted to thrive, while the rest of working class is being driven into more poverty with each generation.

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          Yeah but the tokyo metro area is an insanely large sprawl only rivaled by the tristate area of New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, Connecticut.
          I kinda meant just the dense city lines of both which is still an insane amount.
          That entire tristate area is also 20 million people so its more people than that that are wealthy enough to think the empire as a truly good thing.

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    Broke, poor, and in debt are three different things.

    Broke just means no cash on hand. You can have tons of cash flow and assets but at the moment you are lacking liquidity to pay cash for things. You may or may not have debt. You might have just blown all your cash on a big purchase.

    Poor means you have little and earn little and can do little. Debt is often a factor here but you can be poor and not in debt.

    People in debt owe money. They might not be struggling at all. Sometimes rich people borrow money because it costs them less than the interest they receive on the cash they have. Or it could be the opposite, it could be crippling every aspect of their lives.

    Americans carry a lot of debt on average. My only debit is my mortgage plus the last two weeks of credit card spending. I pay off my card in full every month. I only use the credit card because it offers purchase protection and I get rewards. Not all debt is bad debt, but a lot of it is.

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      I used to be comfortably poor with no debt. My income, expenses and living standards were low.

      Now earning a little over minimum wage and fucking hell life is easy, but largely because I was poor and just got used to not having things. I continue that now.

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        Once you learn how to live on very little money out of necessity, living comfortably within your means as your wages increase doesn’t feel like such a bad thing.

        And anyone who has been without a safety net understands that keeping a buffer in their bank account feels way better than splurging on impulsive luxuries.

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          My buffer started at treat £2k as zero. As my wages went up I quickly started going over £5k and then £10k, didn’t even know how to spend it. So I didn’t spend it.

          Within a few years of saving like £5-10k a year I had enough for a pretty good deposit on a house, like 15% or so. The house we got wasn’t even at the higher end of what we could borrow. I don’t want to min/max wealth, I want to live comfortably, and there are allotments across the road from us.

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    Who’s pretending?

    We’re all broke. Unless you’re a boomer trying to sell a $0.50 house you bought in the 50s you paid for on a gas station cashier salary. They’re ok for the moment. But even a lot of them are going broke now too. Highest demographic of newly homeless last I heard.

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      Because those boomers who are broke were attempting to keep up with those who actually had money. I know a few examples…

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    I’m guessing not admitting your finances are shit is pretty universal, no need to pick on 'Murica.

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      There is some truth to what you’re saying but the USA are special about it. It’s like, they try to (badly) act as if they had more than enough money but it’s obvious they’re struggling badly. Like a functional addict thinking he’s hiding it well but in fact everyone knows and there’s a shared social discomfort in the charade

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      Or more specifically, we are ashamed when we can’t afford things we need. We are saturated by right-wing propaganda that says if you don’t succeed, it’s your fault. So, like abuse victims, we internalize the shame of what is done to us.

      It’s a message tailored so we don’t question the rich, and as an added benefit to them, trains the poor to not seek government systemic solutions to the inequality that creates their poverty.

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      It’s actually curious to read this comment while several others state how they could manage to pay their debt, but they choose to be in debt because it’s somehow convenient for them. I believe them, it’s just curious because anyone could say the same.

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        Part of that has to do with how our economy is built around credit cards and debt itself. They don’t want you to fully pay off your credit card debt, and will reduce the amount you can borrow if you do. And if you try to opt out of the debt system entirely, it hurts you as well because you have no credit score from the credit card companies and no history of paying off you debt on time, which hurts your chances to get things like loans and mortgages. I hate debt, and ran into this issue the first time I went to buy a car because I had always used debit cards to buy stuff. Despite the cards being Visa cards that just got paid off immediately by charging my bank account instead of being paid off over time, I didn’t have any debt history as a result and had to have somebody cosign my car loan to vouch for me that I’d actually pay the loan.

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    It’s part of our culture. It dates back to when America was new. Plantation owners wanted to pretend we had a rich and powerful economy and history and culture. They made everything pristine and gaudy and exp wove looking but there was no substance. Look at the architectural decisions made in plantation houses and how the elements are still used in homes today.

    We pretend we are better than we really are.

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    America is a third world occupied country but everybody is in denial, obese and wearing nice clothes 😌

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    Debt, used properly, makes you wealthy. Every billionaire you know has debt because of the advantages.

    I grew up middle class. To afford my prestigeous university, I took out debt (before grant only financial aid). The value of my education allowed me to earn a higher salary to pay it off in two years. I kept earning that salary and more after the debt was paid. It had a high present value.

    I bought my latest house four years ago. Mortgage rates were so low I decided to finance part of it at 2% even though I had the cash. I now earn 4.5% in money markets. After taxes, I earn 0.72% every year not to pay off my mortgage. With $350,000 remaining, this is an extra $2,500/year right now.

    I shop with credit cards that give me 2-5% back on purchases. I pay off my balance every month and have never paid one penny in interest or penalties in over a decade. My credit cards therefore pay ~$1,500/year tax free.

    Larry Ellison likes controlling Oracle and being a billionaire. Rather than selling stock of Oracle to fund his lifestyle, he instead borrows against the value of the stock. As Oracle appreciated, he got to keep the gains he doesn’t trigger capital gains taxes.

    Most Americans do live paycheck to paycheck. They live at the ragged edge of their means and remain ignorant of finance. However, this is a global phenomenon. The difference is that much of the United States tax code is set up to benefit the wealthy. Adopt their habits and your wealth starts to snowball.

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      Larry Ellison likes controlling Oracle and being a billionaire. Rather than selling stock of Oracle to fund his lifestyle, he instead borrows against the value of the stock. As Oracle appreciated, he got to keep the gains he doesn’t trigger capital gains taxes.

      I never really understood this. He still has to pay the loan, and he isn’t doing that with his symbolic $1/year salary. What part am I missing?

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        Debt interest below investment yield means infinite money.

        You’re missing the taxes they aren’t paying on the yield of the investment. That’s only taxed when sold. So if you borrow against investments tied up in the market then it never triggers the tax.

        Theoretically their estate would get taxed on the value resulting in a nice cascade of tax triggers but they’re doing away with that asap.

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          You need to pay that loan with cash, right? I get that your assets secure the loan, but without another source of cash, how you pay back the loan and not sell your assets?

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              Can you provide an example? I’m not sure I get how that works out in their favor. In my view, paying debt with more debt is a terrible mistake and will get you in financial trouble. But I get that they have far more assets than I do. I just don’t quite see where it doesn’t go wrong.

              Do they not have to pay the principle?

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                I borrow $1000, assuring you I can pay you back because I have $5000 worth of stock.

                A few years later, I borrow $5000, assuring you I can pay you back because I have $10000 worth of stock (it’s not more stock, it’s just worth more now). I use that $5000 to pay off the $1000 debt plus interest, and then have some left over.

                Few years later, I borrow $10000, assuring you I can pay you back because I have $50,000 worth of stock. I use that $10000 to pay off the $5000 debt plus interest and then have some leftover.

                Repeat as necessary. The bank does eventually get their money (when you die or are for some reason forced to sell, paying off the debt with cash rather than promises). To the bank this is an investment. To you, it’s a way to get cash without having to actually sell your stocks, avoiding taxes, and letting your value continue to skyrocket.

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                  Okay. Thanks. That makes sense.

                  I guess the cycle continues if you will the stock to your children. So it could be decades until anyone pays taxes.

                  And if the stock tanks, then I guess you declare bankruptcy.

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                Other reply was good.

                To answer your question, you can borrow against equity tied up in assets without down payment. For example, if you have a house you can borrow against the value less any mortgage up to some percent of the total value. In my situation i can borrow up to 60% of the value of a house.

                Down payments are for purchasing assets where the purchased asset will act as collateral. The idea is that the bank walks away with something if you immediately fail to pay on debts.

                Stocks can act as equity assets in a similar way as the house. Equity loans generally have relatively low interest.

                As a side note, this is all bullshit, interest is evil, and the system should be burnt to the ground and billionaires rotisseried over the coals for dinner.

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        As I understand it, one way is to just borrow again against similar stock. He borrows against stock bundle A for a while, and when that loan comes due, repays with a fresh loan against stock bundle B. A and B can be the same amount of stock, but as long as the line goes up, the loan against B more than repays the loan against stock A.

        There’s intricacies and details in the process, but that’s how I understand the basic process goes.

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      I shop with credit cards that give me 2-5% back on purchases. I pay off my balance every month and have never paid one penny in interest or penalties in over a decade. My credit cards therefore pay ~$1,500/year tax free.

      I don’t really have anything to add as this is pretty much all spot on to how the wealthy live, but on this one I’d like to point out that you’re not actually making money - you’re just taking back part of the money that you already paid. That money isn’t paid by the credit card companies, they’d never be dumb enough to leave money on the table like that. They pay it through increased transaction fees for the businesses, who eat the extra cost through higher prices. There are states that do something similar with their recycling programs. They give you 5 cents per bottle you recycle at the center, but you paid a 5 cent bottle deposit when you bought them at the store. You’re not making any money, or even making back some of what you paid the store. You’re just getting your deposit back.

      Maybe you somehow reduce your taxes by cycling that money through a cash back program? I’m not well versed on finances, so I won’t even try to theorize on that, but it certainly isn’t free money or something.

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        Yes, the credit card spending is technically a rebate, hence why it is tax free. However, I am going to purchase an identical basket of goods and services whether or not I use credit, so it is functionally identical.