Oh this is the fun part: the gathering in question is my mils 70th birthday gathering
In whoop whoop, 8 hours drive away. (They literally live a five min drive from us) On the weekend “oh you can only stay one night if you like” aye cheers mate. My birthday is the sat. So i spend it in a car regardless.
The kicker: her birthday isn’t the 6th. It’s the 23rd. But “oh kids are going to be on international trips so let’s do this date instead”
So now i’m absolutely fucking my birthday - and actually being able to see my sister who lives some distance away and has small children given it’s actually a weekend or i’m blowing off the milestone birthday and “making” husband miss his mother’s milestone b’day because he won’t leave me alone for obvious reasons.
Ugh what a crappy choice to have to make. Your FIL sounds like an absolute jerk. If I were you I’d be inclined to blow it off but you just know you’ll be the ‘bad guy’ if you do!
Oh this is the fun part: the gathering in question is my mils 70th birthday gathering
In whoop whoop, 8 hours drive away. (They literally live a five min drive from us) On the weekend “oh you can only stay one night if you like” aye cheers mate. My birthday is the sat. So i spend it in a car regardless.
The kicker: her birthday isn’t the 6th. It’s the 23rd. But “oh kids are going to be on international trips so let’s do this date instead”
So now i’m absolutely fucking my birthday - and actually being able to see my sister who lives some distance away and has small children given it’s actually a weekend or i’m blowing off the milestone birthday and “making” husband miss his mother’s milestone b’day because he won’t leave me alone for obvious reasons.
Absolute dog cunt move
Ugh what a crappy choice to have to make. Your FIL sounds like an absolute jerk. If I were you I’d be inclined to blow it off but you just know you’ll be the ‘bad guy’ if you do!
Oh but he has no ideeaaa why this would upset someone!
And it’s like dude i’m fucking autistic and know that. Come the fuck on.
geeze that sucks. carefully arranged so if you say no you are not okay of course.