I grew up pre-internet and only embraced it at uni, early www time. I grew up not having a mobile phone because they didn’t exist, went to the local (crappy) library if I wanted a map of the world or to do any form of research. Things most people today can do it seconds involved having to get up, go out, and interact with people one way or another.
I rushed out one day and forgot my phone and headphones. I got about 40m away before realising and thought ‘meh’. Didn’t make any difference to my day.
I look at what I do today, and even typing this wouldn’t really have been possible some 25-30 years ago, unless it was in an email to someone I probably personally knew. I only had read-only access to usenet.
Now, everyone (and any bot) can write text on to another computer that others can be influenced by.
Posts that are clearly attempting to manipulate me are everywhere - propaganda thrived in the newspapers, on the radio, the television, and now internet. He who wins, gets to write history.
Having so much information at my fingertips (both biased and factual) mean I actually need to interact with the world less because any inquisition can be solved within seconds.
So now, I’m actively stepping away from the online and want you encourage you to do it too! I’ve started to read a physical book, ask more people questions forget my phone more often, and take a better look at the world around me, and things are so much more quieter!
“Muh anxieties” have no excuse because I need to forget about them to do stuff.
We’re actually becoming a world of isolated people falling into particular funnels that shape us. Break free now and do something afk that scares you. Put your phone down, leave it at home when you go out, ask a stranger for directions.
You owe no online community anything, especially not your short-lived time.
I feel like you are on to something there. I was never interacting with people online prior to this. I was a heavy user of reddit, but never posted anything. And then when they went to shit (closing the API down) I migrated to lemmy and I did (still do) feel like I need to be active here so that I’m doing my part for the human part of the internet
This is a very powerful argument and one can use it justify all sorts of selfish behaviour (as a strawman). I’m not saying I entirely disagree with this statement but on the other hand, what else do we have. I mean in this short lived time, if we’re not engaging with community and other people, what even is the point.
One could argue to find the community offline/IRL, but it’s not so easy. And moreover, I want the old/indie/free/community run web back. Too many things have been fucking enshittified by capitalism
And it’s because of this dopamine hit / concept. that facebook uses bots and AI gen content to ‘interact’ with people to create an echo chamber and keep them coming back for more ad views.
The original internet is way gone. The poole is now long closed. No more free bitcoins. No more original internet. Connecting with real people and not faceless AI gen bots is where it’s at.