• owl@infosec.pub
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    17 hours ago

    When woman say, that men are poor quality commodities it’s funny you see?

    • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world
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      15 hours ago

      I’m a man and I need a bro to explain me

      why are men attracted to younger women?

      I’m interested in women my age ± like 5 years ish.

      when I was a teen I was into teens, in my 20s I was into girls in their 20s…

      the idea of dating a 20 years old as a 36 year old man seems gross and annoying.

      • Im_old@lemmy.world
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        14 hours ago

        Because they don’t want to date (i. e. have some kind of personal engagement), they want to play nut and bolt.

          • veni_vedi_veni@lemmy.world
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            10 hours ago

            Apart from obvious attractiveness in younger adults, I’d probably chalk it up to societal norms (and maybe there’s an evolutionary component to it as well) for males’ perceived value on being the bread winner.

            So dating younger is how you ensure they are dependent on you, and thus fulfill your purpose as a man.

      • Ilovethebomb@sh.itjust.works
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        14 hours ago

        Purely physically speaking, pretty much everyone gets less attractive as they get older.

        There is, of course, a maturity gap, which is a whole different problem.

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        14 hours ago

        So many mid responses to this question, so here is the actual answer.

        Men are raised to be more overtly sexual and have the most income (yes yes… my culture, my country, not worldwide, stfu we all know…) , because of this advertising has been focused on men while bombarding us with their image of perfect feminine beauty (which tends to be youthful qualities) to get us to focus on their products, seeing this your entire life you adopt that framework of what beauty is.

        Ultimately though its because the majority of the world are NPC’s following a script.

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      16 hours ago

      This post is pointing out that few men want to date ‘older’ women while men of all ages want to date younger women.

      It’s wild how discussing age and gender inequality in dating is considered misandry.