Why can’t they just consciously recognize “I find them attractive and I totally would if they were up for it, but they aren’t, and that’s okay” and then let it go?
Because then their friends call them f-slurs and tell everyone they’re gay for not wanting to have wild sex with every attractive girl/woman they come across.
Why can’t they just consciously recognize “I find them attractive and I totally would if they were up for it, but they aren’t, and that’s okay” and then let it go?
Because then their friends call them f-slurs and tell everyone they’re gay for not wanting to have wild sex with every attractive girl/woman they come across.
Or even just “this person is attractive but I’m not interested in changing our relationship”
Or even “this person is attractive and I would be interested in changing our relationship, but they aren’t, and that’s okay”
I doubt most incels make it to the actual rejection part.
that phrase is equivalent to “wanting sex”, it’s just the healthy expression of it because of all the extra words.