RememberThatILoveYou [they/them, des/pair]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 27 days agoWhy are narrcisists so concerned about events being "ruined" by behaviour they don't like?message-squaremessage-square8fedilinkarrow-up134arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up133arrow-down1message-squareWhy are narrcisists so concerned about events being "ruined" by behaviour they don't like?RememberThatILoveYou [they/them, des/pair]@hexbear.net to chapotraphouse@hexbear.netEnglish · 27 days agomessage-square8fedilinkfile-text
minus-squaredil [he/him, comrade/them]@hexbear.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up14·27 days agoControl through guilt. Nobody wants an event to be ruined, and the narcissist knows this and uses it as a weapon to get what they want.
Control through guilt.
Nobody wants an event to be ruined, and the narcissist knows this and uses it as a weapon to get what they want.